Do Not let the Pain to Weaken Us, Instead let it Make Us to Become Stronger
Sometimes we are facing with a setback or a humiliation in our life and that can give us a great inner pain.
At such moment, we actually dropping the soil under our feet and the pain became unbearable thus our life are becoming hopeless.
Why we should let ourselves so hurt and down with the problems about things that have already happened? Even so we probably can do nothing to change this.
Because things done is done, so let it be a good lesson for us, and of course we can not just take away our emotion and we have to be stronger with it.
This will be not easy in some cases so we should consider the reality whether there are possibilities for change as we are being stuck in the situation at that time.
Life do not stop and has no pause button, that may sounds harsh but it is the true essence of life.
When we are very upset both mentally and emotionally, we can no longer follow the order of the day and that can be giving a huge impart for our existence.
If several people are involved in this drama, it is better to jointly seek solutions to return the peace of mind for everybody.
And if necessary give each other comfort and strength to reach for an agreement to finish it with a powerful solution.
Let us not be weakened by the pain so we all will be stronger and stand more powerful together in life.
I wish you a healthy life.
Author Jan Jansen